If I were honest, I would tell you, I have shed tears over my new laptop. It is so easy and I have been operating a virtual job, kindling writing aspirations, and shooting thousands of photos to be saved on a broken laptop for a year. The minutes of my day are revolutionized. Can we […]


Gotcha Day

The complete insensitivity and the utter joy wrapped up in the title of this day. Mim’s Gotcha Day is in February and we celebrate with balloons, cupcakes and a trip to Goodwill for more high heels. I revel in the day and the happiness of the memory of meeting our baby girl. The cosmic folly […]



I’m attempting a shift. A new idea. Focusing on problems will not get me far. I’m focusing on the relationships. I learned this from Black people. (How can I say, I learned this from Black people? I mean the whole of Black civilization did not appear to me and me alone and deliver me from […]